Yeah, I’m “that Mom”.
I’m the mom who tries to buy organic, non-gmo foods. The one who tries to limit fake food coloring, and tries to get more natural ones instead. One who will reach for the whole grain item first instead of white processed. One who uses essential oils and tries natural home remedies.
I’m the mom who tried to have an all natural birth (twice). I’m the mom who exclusively breastfeeds her babies until they self wean. I’m the one who nurses on demand. I am the one who nurses when ever and wherever it’s needed. I’m the mom who uses cloth diapers.
I’m the mom who’s babies sleep in the same room as her. I’m the mom who doesn’t use cry it out, or sleep training. I’m the mom who’s kid is still rear facing at 3.5 years old in the car.
I’m the mom who doesn’t spank or hit as punishment. I’m the mom who talks out tantrums.
I’m the mom who wants as many kids as I can have. I’m the mom who wants to keep them close and home with me as long as possible. I’m the mom who chose to stay home with my kids to raise them.
BUT, I’m also the mom who buys lucky charms on occasion, and a happy meal here and there. The one who uses essential oils but did her research and will only use Young Living. I’m the mom who uses modern medicine as well. I’m the mom who vaccinates her children.
I’m also the mom who tried natural birth, but went in with the attitude of having a healthy, happy baby and mom is more important than no meds/or interventions if needed. I’m the mom who nurses, but also supplemented with formula for 3 months with my son. I’m the mom who nurses where ever, but usually uses a cover, sometimes not. I’m the mom who uses cloth diapers and pampers, or huggies.
I’m the mom who’s babies sleep in the same room, because it’s easier to nurse on demand. I’m the mom who would rather pick up her crying baby than do cry it out. I’m the mom who has never turned her sons car seat around and doesn’t plan to until he reaches the maximum height/weight.
I’m also the mom who doesn’t spank, but hasn’t always been as understanding as I should have been in the moment. I’m the mom who has yelled at my naughty toddler.
I’m the mom who wants a whole baseball team of kids but with secondary infertility and 2 c sections, am limited. I’m the mom who wants to teach my kids to be independent and do things on their own. I’m the mom who chose to stay home with my kids, but also works from home. I’m the mom who loves the most important job I’ve ever had, but sometimes needs a break.
I’m the BEST mom.
For MY kids. I’m not always right, but I try everyday.
Yeah, I’m “that mom”, and I’m damn proud of it.